Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Dreaming of summer patios in January and February

So I have been down for the count since Friday of last week.  My rear molar was found to be cracked back in October therefore an old filling was taken out and redone in hopes that that would last.  It didn't.  It hasn't felt right since then and I knew at some point it was likely I would need a root canal and crown.  On Wednesday it started hurting.  I called the dentist and made an appointment for this coming Friday (they are quite booked).  Two days later the side of my face puffed out, obviously, I had a tooth infection.  In Canada, you don't pay for Dr appointments but do for Dental ones.  Since my dentist was closed anyway on Saturday I waited for 2 hours at a walk-in medical clinic (my family Dr is also closed weekends) and got penicillin and Tylenol 3 with codeine to try and get the infection under control for the appointment.  And it went downhill from there.  I had a ton of pain and so took Tylenol 3.  That made me ill.  So by Sunday, I was not taking any pain meds, just the penicillin.  I was so nauseous that I barely ate anything this weekend and lost 2.5 lbs.  Apparently, the penicillin made me ill too.  Not an allergy, just a really bad side effect.  Yesterday morning I went to my own family Dr and got a new prescription for an antibiotic that I have used in the past with no bad results.  I have less pain as the infection is going away and some of the swelling too.  Hopefully, by Friday's appointment, it will be fully under control.   I got absolutely nothing done on the weekend - thank goodness we were already well prepared for hubby's business trip that he left on today.  I managed all of 800 steps on Sunday according to my fitbit.  I am so glad today I actually feel quite a bit better.

Throughout all of this, we have been arranging our new patio installation which will happen mid-March.  We are installing a much larger professionally installed patio.  Here is the colour of the stone we picked out:



Although the picture below is of a different colour it is the pattern we have chosen - herringbone.  I hope it turns out good - the siding on our house is brown and our new patio umbrella is a dark red. 


This was a dream of ours - devised poolside in Mexico last January after a couple of cocktails.  At that time we were thinking of selling our house and trying to find a home with a similar style of patio.  Now we are permanently staying here (until one of us can't live here any longer and needs to go into care, yes, a super looooooooong time) so we are investing in our happiness with an outside beautiful patio.  We can't expand our house but we can change the back yard!  Plus, we are still leaving a good amount of grass back there so Buddy will be happy too.  

And what did we do in dismal rainy January you ask?  We bought a bunch of patio furniture which was 50% off (because who buys in January) that is currently in a warehouse waiting to be delivered as soon as our patio is done.  No, this is not cheap but WAY WAY cheaper than moving!!!  Plus, since we intend to stay here forever we have a long time to enjoy it.  I have vetoed any further renovations though after this - for a long time.  I am tired of them, really just would like to enjoy our house instead of always changing and renovating - not much left to do anyway.  We do still have to finish painting the inside, only a couple of walls left, but that is not stressing me out.  

Could we do this patio ourselves?  Perhaps, but we don't have the skillset, or time with us both working fulltime in the business.  Painting is easy.  This kind of thing is not.  Especially when you get into detailed brickwork.  They have to remove grass and some shrubs by hand (no excavator can get in there), level it off to prepare it for the brick, lay the brick and then we are getting a clear coat over our existing small concrete patio area nd the new brick to tie it all together.  

And what else did we buy?  A fire table!  This makes sitting in the back yard drinking wine even nicer and later in the year as gives off warmth.  One of our neighbors has one and we loved it.  We can also eat on it as the middle fire part has a grate you can cover the stone with.  

We can't wait for Spring - I foresee many hours of wine drinking/reading in our back yard in the future.



22 comments:

  1. Oh you poor thing, I'm so sorry you've been in such pain. I hope you can get it sorted soon. And I do like your patio design - very nice. Now you've got me thinking about redoing my patio, although it's quite a way down my list as I have more important things to do (bathrooms, insulation etc.) but it's nice to think about.

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    1. When we very first bought the house we made a gigantic wish list of things we wanted to do. This one was way down on the list - but now it's happening :) So excited

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  2. You poor thing! I broke a tooth last year but the nerve was still alive-I understand your pain-it was hell. I hope your dentist can fix it promptly. We are putting in a patio this year, great idea about the outdoor fireplace.

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    1. The dentist thought the nerves were dead until he took the filling out - and started digging around and I could feel it. Out came the second needle of deadener :) Oh well, I feel so much better now. The outdoor fireplaces are really quite nice and work with a propane tank that is hidden underneath. We have natural gas on our smaller patio but the fire table won't be anywhere near that. They are not cheap but we intend to use it a lot and take care of it by covering it (double cover in winter like we do with our hottub)

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  3. I hope your mouth feels better soon and the appointment goes well. Can't enjoy a patio or anything when your teeth are f'ed up! Ask me how I know....lolz
    Snuggle Buddy until you feel better.

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    1. Feeling so much better thanks - and Buddy is definitely a good snuggler. He really didn't want to leave my side when I was so sick, what a sweetie

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  4. I took Macrobid and became more ill by the day. I will never take that again if I can help it. I like the color of the stone for the patio.

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    1. Thanks - we hope it looks good. Funny how sometimes the medicine is almost worse than the original condition.

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  5. Oh wow! The new patio is going to be great! So sorry to hear about your infected tooth. I know that pain and it's the worst. Hoping all goes well at the dentist on Friday.

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    1. Thanks - much better now. I still have to go back but the worst part (pain wise not money wise lol) is over

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  6. Your backyard plans sound like paradise. So sorry about the tooth, but glad the pain and infection is easing. Can’t believe you still managed to meet your Sunday exercise goal. You’re a better man than I am, Gunga Din! Woman, too!

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    1. I feel human again which is fabulous. You sometimes don't know how bad you felt until you feel better if that makes sense.

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  7. Nice! I love my front patio and it is amazing how quickly the project was completed. Just one weekend! I don't drink wine but I sure enjoy the space.

    Hope the dentist is able to do the necessary repairs on Friday. Good luck!

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    1. I read a lot on the patio which is lovely, also nice to drink my tea out there in the morning. Our current patio is nice but too small. We are not getting rid of that furniture though, just adding. They are supposed to be done in 2 days with the brick work. That includes ripping out some old Rhododendruns (they are saving them) and fixing/aligning our sprinkler system. Definitely a job for professionals.

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  8. What a lovely plan! Your anticipation is palpable!

    Virtual hugs,

    Judie

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    1. Thanks Judie! When we decided to stay versus sell our home making maximum use of the space we have was necessary as we can't expand it and that was the original problem. I think this will really make a big difference.

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  9. I hope that your dental issues are sorted soon and that you're pain free now. That's not a nice way to lose weight.
    The patio plans sound very exciting. If you've got the cash then I don't blame you for not doing it yourself - our 10 tonnes of gravel laying nearly killed us! xxx

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    1. Yes, pain free and my appetite is back lol. We don't do anything on credit (except to charge it then immediately pay it off). This is coming out of our savings - definitely worth it in my opinion. Holy cow I didn't realize that was 10 tonnes of gravel! I can't believe (well yes I can) you and Jon did all of that yourselves but I definitely see why you did. It looks amazing.

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  10. I, so hope that the dental issues are done with very soon. Not nice being in so much pain.

    The pattern you chose for your patio is lovely.

    God bless.

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    1. Thank you Jackie, I am feeling back to normal now - life is so much better when you aren't in pain.

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  11. Oh No! I am glad you are on the upswing of this, but your experience sounds horrid. Codeine makes me sick too -- causing a terrible headache and nausea. The first dose or two is OK, but after that I get sick.

    Here in the US, health and dental insurance are separate. Without an employer sponsored plan, coverage makes no sense. The dentist will charge you more if you don't have coverage, of course -- even if you are paying up front with cash. For that reason, I never go unless I have an actual problem. It's been over two years at this point and I'm just religious about flossing and gum care. One year I lost a filling two weeks after an exam, and had to do the x-rays all over again. Thus, I figure why go unless you know you have a problem.

    I hope you hang on with minimal pain until Friday and that the procedure goes well.

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    1. Our dentists are highly regulated (good thing). Each Province has an authority that puts caps on how much they can charge which really helps - plus they aren't allowed to charge more than those with benefits which is a plus. It is part of the aging process, we try and take good care of our teeth but a cracked molar is pretty darn serious and worth making the investment to fix.

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